Video: Boundaries
Boundaries, once set, are important to keep. Set boundaries according to what you are willing to live with and what you can accept....
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aaron0599
- Apr 25, 2017
- 1 min
Video: I Exist
Some kids have deep emotional wounds we cannot heal. We can, however, validate their experience. We need to let them know that we see...
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aaron0599
- Apr 21, 2017
- 1 min
Video: If __ Then __
When we have strong emotional reactions, it is because our core beliefs have been violated. Blaming others is not the answer. We need to...
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aaron0599
- Apr 19, 2017
- 1 min
Video: MVE Core Beliefs
Look at it from their perspective. Imagine how they feel and let them talk. Try your best to listen and understand.
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aaron0599
- Apr 17, 2017
- 1 min
Video: White Red Black
White, red and black are colors that are often found in fairy tales. They represent the world, self, and death (wisdom), as well as ways...
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aaron0599
- Apr 12, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Love And Logic: Try Not To Worry About It
The words you use are important when it comes time for the consequences discussion. You want to relate what you are willing to do and not...
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aaron0599
- Apr 11, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Love and Logic: Delay the Consequences
If your boundaries are not firm, they are suggestions. As adults, when we set boundaries, we are supposed to mean it. If not we should...
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aaron0599
- Apr 11, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Single Focus VS Diffuse Awareness
People tend to have either a single focus or a diffuse awareness when they do things and engage with their surroundings. Understanding...
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aaron0599
- Apr 4, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Avoid Power Struggles
Parents have to give their teens choices to avoid a power struggle. It is important that parents are good with the choices offered...
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aaron0599
- Mar 31, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Awareness Of How You're Feeling
It is important to assess the way you feel in any given situation. Ask yourself how you feel when engaging with your teen. Actions do not...
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aaron0599
- Mar 31, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Raising Strong And Powerful Kids
What does your self care look like? Where does your power come from? Kids model their behavior after us. When you take care of yourself,...
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aaron0599
- Mar 27, 2017
- 1 min
Video: You Built The Trigger
How do we stop them? How do we get them to understand? How do we change them? The trigger is yours. You built that button. Trying to stop...
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aaron0599
- Mar 27, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Everything We Do Is Therapy
Take care of yourself first and you will do better with your kids. You will realize where the healthy boundary is between you and your kid.
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aaron0599
- Mar 24, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Self Care
How do you role model self-care? What are you willing and not willing to do? Where do you find your willingness?
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aaron0599
- Mar 24, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Relapse Will Happen
Relapse is a part of recovery. The old dragon will show up in some form or another after your treatment. The goal is to see it!
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aaron0599
- Mar 22, 2017
- 1 min
Video: MVE- Mirror Validate Empathize
Mirror, Validate, and Empathize. A strategy to deepen a conversation with your teen at risk. This is a communication only strategy! How...
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aaron0599
- Mar 22, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Get out of the way! (Don't go away!)
How do you balance staying connected and giving freedoms to at-risk teens? When suicide becomes an issue, how do you give space AND stay...
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aaron0599
- Mar 20, 2017
- 1 min
Video: State Changes
There are 2 different kinds of changes in recovery. How they both work, who is responsible to guide the resident through the changes, and...
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aaron0599
- Mar 16, 2017
- 1 min
Video: Validate The Storyteller Not The Story
Using MVE (Mirror, Validate, Empathize) as a strategy is very useful to create a powerful conversation with your teen. What do you do...
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aaron0599
- Feb 22, 2017
- 1 min
Video: The Cycle of Addiction
The cycle of addiction is important to understand. At Fire Mountain, we take a different approach to addiction. Addiction is related to...
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